Cowboys Only

February 07, 2015
Biloxi, Mississippi
Hard Rock Casino


Originally, my agent booked a bachelorette party for me in Biloxi on Friday, February 6, but I had too many other work-related and home-related errands to attend, so I had to turn it down.

"No problem," he said. "I'll get somebody else."

Saturday came. My agent sent me a text message about Biloxi again, asking if I could do it.

"Sure," I replied. "Same group as yesterday?"

"Yep," he said. "Be sure to wear a cowboy costume or they'll turn you away."

No problem, I thought. Apparently, the notion of "being turned away" had a back story. Towards the end of my performance, one of the girls told me that they turned away another male stripper on the previous night.

This information intrigued me, so I asked for details.

"Well, he was kind of a douche," she said. "And he didn't have a cowboy costume. He didn't think it was a big deal either. So we turned him away. Like how hard is it to get a cowboy costume?"

My first costume was the cowboy outfit. It's the easiest to assemble, so that other male stripper had no excuse. He basically threw this show away that I practically gave him when I turned it down the first time, and I just happened to come along and pick up where he left off.

Overall, the show played out great despite my energy levels being low from a difficult week of work at my full-time job. The girls tipped me generously and treated me very well.

Moral of the story: Always wear the requested costume!

The Republican Party Campaign Aide

I strip for girls from all walks of life...

That's what I love about this job -- I get to meet doctors, teachers, lawyers, nurses, authors, and even CEOs. Once I even met a lady who lived near and partied with former Illinois Governor Rod Blagojevich (who is now serving time in federal prison). These women come from broad backgrounds, and they share their fascinating stories with me. Hence, I learn a little about different careers with each party.

During one of the bachelorette parties in January, I met a girl who used to work as a political journalist and an aide to Mitt Romney's 2012 presidential campaign. She also worked as an aide for the Republican Party in general, sharing a lot of interesting (and scandalous) things about many of the candidates. We talked in the kitchen for an hour after my performance about her experience.

To protect her privacy, I won't be sharing any of her information about her or her affiliations (except the Mitt Romney campaign). We'll just refer to her as "Dixie."

The 2012 Republican Presidential Candidates.

Dixie began by saying this: "I'm a registered Republican and all, but I don't really get involved in politics anymore."

"Why's that?" I asked, intrigued.

"Well, I can't tell you about the Democrats, because I obviously didn't work with any of them--although I'm sure most of them are just as crooked--but, I will say this: After traveling with and getting to know some of these (Republican) candidates, I can't morally bring myself to support them, because most of them are just horrible people. I just have moral issues with voting for someone who I know is a crook."

Dixie continued on by saying that she interviewed, spoke to, even spent time with family members of the various Republican candidates. We went down the list, and here's what she had to say about each one of them:

on Newt Gingrich - "He's a very bad person. Probably one of the worst candidates of the bunch as far as dishonesty and corruption goes."

on Rick Santorum - "He's on a power trip--quite full of himself, actually."

on Mitt Romney - "He's a bit moderate for the party, but he's a really good guy. He always treated us aides very well. I felt great working for him. I knew he wouldn't win though."

on Rick Perry - "He's a nice guy, but comes from a wealthy family and is used to having money handed to him. His family is really sweet."

Dixie brought up this incident with Governor Perry:



"Rick Perry just recently had back surgery and was on a lot of pain meds during that debate. He should've been resting instead of campaigning. I was with his family after that debate, and it was rough. I felt really bad for them."

on Herman Cain - "That scandal he had going during his campaign was just a tip of the iceberg. I heard stories about him having strippers and drugs on his private jet. That man is crooked and definitely not presidential material."

on Ron Paul - "I interviewed him once during the campaign. He's a real sweetheart, and one of the few honest guys in politics."

Dixie even delved back to the 2008 campaign with Senator John McCain, stating that he had several vices that aren't suitable for a presidential candidate. "Basically, the stuff going on in McCain's plane was so bad that Sarah Palin had to take a separate jet because she couldn't stand being around it. He's just another corrupt career politician."

In the end, I hope Dixie found my strip show as entertaining as I found her stories.

Status of Male Stripper Memoir

My second book, a memoir of when I first started stripping during college, is coming along nicely. I'm about 80% done with it, and will once again enlist the talented Kelly Luce (visit her page) to edit it.

The memoir will cover a broad range of exciting events I encountered on the job such as:

- My transformation from nerd to male stripper

- Competing with other male dancers for bookings

- Relationship vs. job conflicts

- Threesomes and more

- Cuckolds and Swingers

- Working at a gay club

- Cheating brides/girlfriends

- Other fucked-up male strippers

- Dating an angry virgin who hated my job

- Spiteful men who wanted to kill me

- Jealous friends

- Double standards

- how being a male stripper benefited me for the job market

- and many candid photos from my personal collection

The memoir is scheduled to be released in spring of this year, so keep an eye out for updates!

A Crazy Start to 2015

Taking off the cop uniform.

Under normal circumstances, January often drudges along without any bachelorette parties in my region. Everyone spent the holidays celebrating and find themselves returning to their normal work lives.

That was a good thing, too. I threw out my back a few weeks ago and had to go to the hospital. Out of all the times to have an injury, December and January were the most ideal since I wouldn’t have to work … Or so I had thought.

This year brought many tourists eager to thrust dollar bills into a male stripper’s G-string.

Here are the highlights from the parties of January, 2015, so far:

First Party

- The first bachelorette party was wilder than usual, touching, groping, and fondling me without reservations.

- Everyone ranged from ages 18 to 24.

- My back was bothering a bit at this party, even hampering my movements, but the fervor of the crowd made me forget about it sometimes.

- I was able to get some pics and videos as you can see.

- I stripped completely nude based on the girls unanimously voting to see my penis.

- One girl said, “I hope this doesn’t offend you, but I gotta say it … Asian, big dick!”

- I kissed an 18-year-old girl and exchanged phone numbers with her. A college freshman.


Second Party

- Women ranged in the late 20’s to 50’s.

- Everyone was exceptionally kind.

- I earned $300 from this gig.

- It was exceptionally cold (for the South) on this night. Usually I strip in the spring, summer, or fall where it’s warm in the very least. This time I wore a jacket and gloves with my costume to keep from freezing.

- A few single girls lingered around to talk with me.

- I left early instead of stayed. I’m 33 years old and been working all week—no longer 21 with a deep pool of energy. I needed some time to relax at home.


Third Party

- Bride was a virgin and extremely shy. Other girls warned me that she might not accept the idea of a male stripper. She turned red just by my very presence, and it took a very conservative and careful approach just to avoid scaring her to death.

- Three sisters of the bride’s future husband were present. The bride admitted that she was afraid of getting in trouble with them by interacting with me.

- Two of the sisters were single and insisted that the bride have a good time with me. One sister said, “Look at his body. Our brother looks nothing like this! Come on—feel those abs, grab that ass!”

- One sister mentioned, “Can you believe that she never had sex with the groom? Why buy a car before test-driving it?”

- While I lay down on couch, the girls sprayed whipped cream all over my body—including my abs, neck, chest, inner thighs, and even my crotch area—and licked it off like a litter of kittens attacking a milk dish.

- Eventually the bride relaxes.

- Several girls demanded to see my penis, including the sisters and the bride. What better way to bond with your in-laws than to admire a man's dick together? I said that I would only show them if everyone agreed that it was okay. Two girls didn’t want to. They left the room, leaving half a dozen gathered together on a couch in front of me.

- Once I took my thong off, one girl muttered, “An Asian with a huge penis.” People and their stereotypes... The girls marveled as I stood before them and masturbated.

- One of the sisters, a 23 year old, stood up and approached me. Her hands caressed me all over, finally coming to rest at my cock. She grabbed it and began stroking it. She call her 18-year-old sister up to join. The 18 year old was reluctant at first, but she sauntered next to me, and began touching me too. Two sisters jerking me off; it was like a porn fantasy mixed with drunkenness. I throbbed in pleasure.

- The party ended because several girls were either sick from too much alcohol, or tired because of the late hour. They had to be out of the condo by 9 o’clock in the morning. They packed loads of food for me to take home.

- The bride and her new in-laws said they had a wonderful time. I did too!


So far, 2015 is shaping up to be a great year. I'm looking forward to the rest of it.

**WARNING: Semi-NSFW pic below**

"Hanging out" at the first party.

The Average Income

"What's the average income for a male stripper?"

The earnings from my first 3 shows of 2015.

Guys ask me this question all the time. Some want a job to pay their way through college. Others just want a fun way to get rich. Answering this question is almost impossible for the following reasons:

1. No accountability - Strippers usually don't report the money they make since most of it comes under the table. Plus, most guys don't even keep track of what they earn throughout the year.

2. Sales ability - Stripping is a sales job, based on performance and numbers. Some of us are better at it than others. Those of us who understand sales, marketing, and customer service have an obvious advantage.

3. Work ratio - No two strippers work the same hours. Some dancers have full time professional jobs and only strip on the side, turning down many opportunities that cause schedule conflicts. Others strip as their sole source of income, thus taking every gig possible.

4. Location - The bachelorette party hotspots determine where the work is. For example, Las Vegas has more demand for male strippers than Podunk, Mississippi. 

5. Versatility - The profit margin extends to how far a guy is willing to sell himself. The stripper, himself, is a product, and the more a product can do, the more it can sell itself. Most of the time it is bachelorette private parties. Sometimes it's performing on stage. Some strippers even sell sex or do gay-4-pay porn. Men who are willing to do anything and everything have the options to make more money than those who only strip at bachelorette parties.

6. Personal Appeal - Stripping is a popularity contest. Women tend to choose the hottest guy for their parties and tip him more at male revues. No equal opportunity here.

Considering those factors, let me use an example to demonstrate why it's difficult to gauge an average income. 

Take me, for instance. I strip for mostly bachelorette parties in sparsely populated resort communities off the Emerald Coast. I do this mainly on weekends due to my full-time job during the week, turning down many shows. Therefore, I usually work 2 to 3 parties a week during the peak season and earn some extra cash, but not enough to buy a Ferrari anytime soon.

Now let's say there's a stripper named Earl in Las Vegas. In addition to bachelorette parties, he works at male revues, at gay clubs, and does one-on-one with rich clients. He doesn't have a full-time job, so he strips as his main source of income, taking any and every gig available. As a result, Earl will earn a lot more money than I will in a year's time.

One of my agents, a former male stripper, claims that his top guys make from $150,000 to $300,000 a year. However, that involves many hours of driving and a lot of events. It taxes the body after awhile.

"I know guys that drive 5 or 6 hours a day, everyday," he says. "I used to travel from 10,000 to 12,000 miles a month in my car. It was not as fun as some people would think, but I did enjoy it."

All in all, a male stripper's income depends on how much he's willing to work and how far he's willing to travel. Some guys don't like working that much, or don't want to work on the weekends. Others are absolute workaholics. The salary resembles a sales-based commission job, and no two strippers are alike.