Chapter 3: Why Hire a Male Stripper?

*Note: The following chapter is an excerpt from my book, "Behind the G-String: Dion's Guide to Becoming a Male Stripper" that is available here.  



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Sometimes, I get asked, "Why should a group of ladies hire you when they can go out and get any guy they want for free?" In business, this translates to, "Why should I buy your service/product?" If you cannot answer this question, you should not be selling your service or product. You should not be a stripper if you cannot demonstrate why women should pay you to perform.

This is an obstacle anyone in business faces. Sure, there are plenty of men out there who would be happy to volunteer a strip show for a crowd of attractive ladies. What makes a good male stripper different from the other guys is quality, professionalism, and entertainment value.

First, when women hire male strippers, they want a stud. They don't want Average Joe, or a guy with a beer gut, or a rail thin college kid who weighs less than most of the girls do. They want a universally appealing man with an appealing face and a muscular body with well-defined abdominal muscles. Therefore, appearance plays a huge role in determining the quality of a male stripper, and good appearance comes from routine exercise, proper diet, genetics, and hygiene.  

Male strippers also put forth a high degree of professionalism for their shows. This ranges from the costume selection to the friendly attitude he displays. When a stripper takes on a show, he makes a promise with customers to be dependable, arrive on time, and put on a good show. He also gauges each girl to determine her comfort zone and how to react accordingly. Above all, they have the ability to work with customers of different backgrounds, cultures and creed.

Most importantly, women hire male strippers because of their ability to entertain. Whether it’s a bachelorette or birthday party, the girls want some fun and a good laugh. A male stripper knows how to provide a good time with plenty of activities for the women to enjoy.

So why should women hire a male stripper over the average guy? Because he is the epitome of masculinity mixed with entertainment.