Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Brides Cheating at Bachelorette Parties

Q: Dion, my fiance is having a bachelorette party, and a male stripper will be there. Should I be worried? Do brides cheat on their husbands with male strippers at bachelorette parties? If so, what percentage of them cheat?

A: First off, the male stripper isn't the problem here. The real issue is either the lack of faith you have in your fiance, or the lack of faithfulness she has towards you. You should be more worried if this woman is really the right woman for you, since you don't know if she'd sleep with a complete stranger behind your back.

Now onto answering your question.

Yes, there are brides somewhere out there who have cheated on their future husbands with a male stripper. However, the percentage of brides and male strippers hooking up is actually pretty low. The percentage of brides and random guys at a club hooking up are much higher.

Think about it.

Bachelorette parties tend to hit the clubs and bars after the male stripper performs. The girls get drunk, dance, and mingle all night long. Random men approach them, some preying on the girls' inebriated state. These guys have plenty of time to build a rapport and seal the deal.

Throwing alcohol in that mix doesn't help either. Alcohol loosens inhibitions, which causes people to make poor decisions, such as pick fights with the police or sleep with random strangers.

Now combine the club atmosphere, a group of girls from a bachelorette party, alcohol, and a bunch of horny guys, and you have a good recipe for some bad mistakes to happen.

Here's one reader's recent account of what he had witnessed at a club:

I went out last Friday and saw this beautiful bachelorette in a white short dress. She was dancing with her girlfriends then later started dancing with some dude in the middle on the dance floor. I guess she was feeling him and started making out for 2 minutes straight. Her girlfriends just watched in disbelief, then separated her from the guy and took her home. I was like, damn, if her girlfriends weren't there, she would've gotten fucked for sure.

See? That bride made out with someone at the club instead of a male stripper. Going to back to the original question, stop blaming the male stripper for suspicions of your fiance's infidelity.

Cheating stems from an innate desire to do so. If your fiance wants to sleep with another man, she's going to do it whether a male stripper is there or not. Of course, a combination of alcohol and a muscular stud present may accelerate that process, but it was a process in motion to begin with.

Rather than trying to stop this bachelorette party from happening, you should evaluate whether your future wife is the type of girl who likes to go out and do crazy things behind your back. If she does, then maybe you should reconsider marriage, because you cannot put her in a cage and control her every behavior.

Just remember: Even a caged animal has urges.


  1. Actually, brides hook up with male strippers and bed them.

  2. Maybe having full on sex with a male stripper is not that common for the girls at bachelorette parties, but I suspect that hand jobs and BJ`s are much more common... I suspect maybe 8 out of 10 girls engage in giving a HJ or BJ - especially if the booze is flowing....

  3. I know youll delete this comment dion but your still disgusting as ever stop trying to excuse your disgusting behavior and be a man for fucking once remember what j told you all that time ago i thought youd learn good god man how fucking stupid are you.

    1. I see that you still cannot use proper sentence structure and grammar. Just look at how atrocious your writing is. So if I'm stupid, what does that make you?

    2. I see that you still cannot use proper sentence structure and grammar. Just look at how atrocious your writing is. So if I'm stupid, what does that make you?

    3. I'm not really bothering with correct grammar,I know your just an english teacher, but look at how you put your comment twice and I was tired when I wrote my comment, besides it's just a comment lol and not a novel lol, you really are a sad man and jesus christ stop ruining other people's lives and by the way I'm glad to see I'm still inside your head I'm not leaving any time soon just so you know kid.

    4. So are you going to keep posting as "Anonymous" while spouting insults? Or shall I just post your name for everyone to see?